As part of the annual Press Christmas for All campaign, we share with readers the stories of those who have received help from the program. This is one of them. 

Growing up in an abusive household, “Kristen” was raised to believe that she was worthless and unlovable.

This belief, ingrained into her sense of self, led to a series of dysfunctional relationships in her adulthood, including one with a man who abused drugs and alcohol, making life unsafe for Kristen and her son. 

When her former partner threatened her and stalked her, she sought help from law enforcement. Police referred her to a community resource that would transform her life. 

Safe Passage provides free, confidential resources, support and crisis intervention to people affected by domestic and sexual abuse, stalking and human trafficking. Services include a 24-hour helpline, an emergency shelter, legal advocacy, counseling, prevention education and more. The nonprofit provides help and resources to anyone experiencing abuse, regardless of age or gender. 

Kristen moved into Safe Passage last spring. There, she participated in a program that helped her see her worth for the first time. 

“When Safe Passage took me in, I was filled with gratitude to finally have a safe place to fall apart so I could pick up the pieces,” she said. 

Through counseling, Kristen learned to face her fears and finally acknowledge the full impact of the childhood abuse and subsequent depression she had experienced. 

“I knew a new chance at life was available, as long as I took the measures to go after it, as long as I was willing to put in the work and the effort to redirect my life,” she said. 



Kristen has since obtained a manager position at her workplace, allowing her to better support herself and her son. Because she works in Spokane, it’s essential that she has a safe vehicle for her daily commute.